How to Decode Your Cat's Behavior

Understanding Cat Body Language

How to Communicate With Your Cat

Just because you and your cat may speak different languages, that doesn't mean you can't successfully communicate with each other. The look in your cat's eyes, her body language, and her vocalizations all contain vital information as long as you know what they mean. Read on for some of the most common phrases in feline language.

  • Rolling on the floor: if your kitty is rolling back and forth on the floor, she is either submitting to you or inviting you to play. If it's the latter, you shouldn't miss it for anything in the world. Your cat won't want to play for too long before getting upset and turning your fingers into snack food!
  • Squinty eyes: cats squint when they are happy. If they close their eyes slowly while looking, that shows that they trust you. Do not break their trust.
  • Sticking a raised back in your face: your cat finds tail sniffing normal so, even if it may sound weird and not your cup of tea, it's your cat’s version of a warm "hello."
  • Sleeping while curled up: the reason cats curl themselves up into little balls when they sleep is that they want to produce and maintain enough body heat to feel warm while they're sleeping.
  • Kneading: Cats would make great bakers, since they seem to love alternately pressing their paws against a soft object - usually you! Behaviorists believe this is a leftover trait from when they were kittens, as the kneading would help their mothers produce milk.
  • Sitting like a cat loaf: cats like to tuck their paws under their stomach when they are feeling safe and comfortable, and they also do it to conserve body heat. It is definitely a good sign if you see your cat doing that!

  • Laying down with one leg extended: it may look as though your cat is doing yoga or stretching herself out a bit. In fact, this position makes it easier for cats to clean themselves up.
  • An exposed belly. This is pretty similar to dogs and is the most important and definitive signs of trust.
  • Nowhere to be found: cats are good at hiding. They love playing hide and seek, or they could just be tired of putting up with your shit. That escalated quickly. Do something funnier.
  • Staring into space: do not think you cat just went mad. Cats have great vision and are aware of things we aren't. So maybe it's staring at a fly you can not see. Either way, they did not just go mad.
  • Hiding in a box: cats find comfort and feel secure in confined places.
  • The "hug and bite" game: yeah, it is just a game. Your cat loves playing at wrestling, even when it plugs its sharp teeth into your easily punctured flesh.
  • Clacking at animals, especially birds: this is a hunting reflex.
  • Snuggling up to your computer: cats want warm places and, more than this, to get on your nerves and annoy you. See, cats own you, not the other way round.
  • A quivering butt: yeah, it is ready to rumble. If it is looking into your eyes while doing this, protect your face. xP

Cat Tail Language

High tail: when a cat holds her tail high as she moves around her territory, she communicates confidence and contentment. She is expressing happiness and is willingness to be friendly with other people in her space. A little twitch at the tip of the tail can mean that the cat is particularly happy.

Curved as a question mark: maybe you should rearrange your schedule for the day so that you can stay in and play with your cat. This position indicates that the cat is playful and ready to have fun with you.

Low: a tail held low can signal aggression and should be taken very seriously. Unless your cat is Persian, as they keep their tail in a low position all the time.

Tucked away: a tail that is curved beneath the body, signals submission or fear. Something is not right and is making the cat nervous.

Puffed up: if your cat is puffed up, he is likely really agitated and frightened, and so is trying to look bigger in order to ward off danger.

Whipping tail: a cat who slaps her tail rapidly back and forth communicates fear and also aggression. It is a warning sign telling you to walk away.

Swishing tail: when your cat's tail sways slowly from one side to the other, she is focused on something. You might see it when she is about to be fed.

Wrapped around an other cat: some cats like to cuddle with their friends. It's cute.

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z7242 2 years ago

why does she PRETEND to yawn?

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Engelta 2 years ago from Albania Author

pretend to yawn? I do not think they pretend, yawn is a natural thing that you can not stop. They yawn because of stretching after they wake up, or when they are about to sleep.

Margaret Lee 18 months ago

This was excellent. Have been unable to find answer to many questions this articl addressed

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Engelta 18 months ago from Albania Author

What do you mean?

Judy 17 months ago

Wonderful kitten pictures. Thank you.

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Engelta 17 months ago from Albania Author

Thank you :)

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Kristen Howe 9 months ago from Northeast Ohio

What a great hub! This explains my cats, twofold. Now can you explain why one of my cats climb and bang on a closet? Or join me on my chair by jumping to the back of it?

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Engelta 9 months ago from Albania Author

Thank you for reading and commenting. Now, regarding to your cat behavior, either she does not have enough power to jump to the point she wants to [she wants to play around I guess], or in the worst case scenario, she has brain damage. You would want to check your cat up if you find her sitting in front of a wall, staring at the wall, or just banging her head into it.

Chelsea 8 months ago

I love this article, good information for every cat owner! I heard that when cats headbut you and arch their back they are either happy or if the do it a lot they are asking for something? My kitty does this constantly, but she has everything she needs... how can I help her? Is she just happy? :)

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Engelta 7 months ago from Albania Author

They want you to scratch their stomach. They absolutely love it! So it seems to me your kitty just wants to get pampered, a lot! :D

Pam 7 months ago

I have a cat that is very vocal. She will come and sit in front of us and cry but we cannot figure out what she wants. Sometimes she just walks around the house crying. She has been extremely vocal since a babe.

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Sasha the Cat 5 months ago

Why do they meow repetitively at your feet?

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Engelta 5 months ago from Albania Author

They won't to be taken care of, maybe a little massage or food.

Shirley 5 months ago

Pretend to yawn?! Your kidding me right?!!! LOL.

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Engelta 5 months ago from Albania Author

Well, you know how kids pretend to cry? It means: they are not really sad, or they don't feel like crying, but they do want to get something or catch your attention. So they choose to cry, even though it is a fake crying!

The same idea goes for cats. You're welcome.

lllkkk 2 weeks ago


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