Twelve Signs Your Cat Really Loves You

Updated on June 27, 2018
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Jennifer Wilber is a freelance writer from Ohio. She holds a B.A. in creative writing and English from Southern New Hampshire University.

Look at this adorable kitten's mlem!
Look at this adorable kitten's mlem! | Source

Cats: Affectionate Lovebugs or Aloof Loners?

Sure, cats have a bad reputation as being aloof and less affectionate than dogs, but that doesn’t mean they don’t love their owners. Cats can be just as affectionate and loving toward their owners as their canine counterparts, but it can be more difficult for humans to read their feline friend’s feelings. Cats may sometimes act like they don’t care, but if you pay attention, your cat is likely sending you many signals that you are their favorite human.

Your cat is always watching you, even when you don't know they are there.
Your cat is always watching you, even when you don't know they are there. | Source

She Always Just Happens to Be in the Same Room as You

Perhaps your feline friend doesn’t enjoy cuddling with you on the couch as much as a dog might. Maybe they don’t seem as excited about belly rubs and head pats as you would like. Cats can be particular about the amount of physical affection they can tolerate, but you have likely noticed that your cat frequently just happens to be hanging out in the same room you are in, watching you from afar. If you get up to go to a different room, don’t be surprised if your kitty friend is close behind.

Cats tend to prefer to be near their favorite people. Cats might be independent creatures by nature, but they still want to spend time with you. If your cat loves you, she will love being near you, even if she doesn’t want you to be too close all the time.

Cats slow blink to tell you they love you.
Cats slow blink to tell you they love you. | Source

She Gives You Kitty Kisses (The “Slow Blink”)

The slow blink is one sign of kitty affection that is often missed by humans if you don’t know what to watch for. If you notice your cat staring at you, slowly closing and opening her eyes, she is trying to tell you that she trusts you and cares about you. Cats only exhibit this behavior around people and cats they trust. Cat experts affectionately refer to this slow blinking behavior as a “kitty kiss.”

Next time you see your cat slow blinking at you, try mimicking her slow blinks to return her kitty kisses! What better way to tell your beloved pet that you love her than in her own language?

Love bites mean your cat loves you! Or that they're hungry...
Love bites mean your cat loves you! Or that they're hungry... | Source

She Gives You Love Bites

Some cats express their affection through love bites. You can tell the difference between a love bite and an aggressive bite by how hard she bites you. If it hurts, you better watch out. A light, playful bite that merely tickles is one way your cat lets you know she loves you.

If your cat likes to nibble on your toes or arm, she wants to play with you. You are likely one of her favorite humans!

Look at the widdle fuzzy tummy! You know you want to pet it! ...Oh noes! It was a trap!
Look at the widdle fuzzy tummy! You know you want to pet it! ...Oh noes! It was a trap! | Source

She Shows You Her Fluffy Tummy

Cats don’t expose their tummies to just anyone! If your cat is laying or rolling on the floor with her tummy up, she is vulnerable. She will only get into this position when she feels safe and trusts you. Cats show their tummy when they feel protected and loved.

She may also be trying to entice you to play. Cats know that no human can resist petting a fluffy kitty belly. Be careful if you try to pet her tummy, however, as it is likely to be a trap!

Cats only headbutt their best friends.
Cats only headbutt their best friends. | Source

She Headbutts You

A headbutt is another way in which cats can tell you that they love you. When a cat headbutts or rubs her head against you, she is depositing pheromones from special glands on her face onto you. Cats do this to mark their own property. If your cat makes a habit out of headbutting you, they mean to let other cats know that you are their special human.

Some cats may butt their head against you forcefully, whereas others prefer to simply nuzzle up against their favorite humans. Whichever way your cat rubs their scent onto you, you should feel privileged that she chose you as her human.

Maine Coon Cats have mighty meows!
Maine Coon Cats have mighty meows! | Source

She Meows at You

Cats rarely meow at other cats, with the exception of kittens meowing to their mothers. Adult cats generally only meow to get the attention of humans. Since cats first began living with humans, they have learned that vocalizations are the best way to communicate with us, a species that just won’t stop talking. A cat’s meow is their closest approximation of communicating in a way that humans can understand. Cats meow at humans to get our attention, ask for food, or to simply to say “hello.” When you meow back and forth with your cat, you can think of it as sort of a cat/human pidgin language. Your cat is trying to speak your human language, and you, in turn, are giving your best attempt at speaking their cat language.

Some people also theorize that cats purposely meow the way they do to imitate human babies in order to get humans to want to care for them. Cats care about their favorite humans, and they want to make sure their humans care about them in return!

I didn't mean that kind of gift! Silly British Shorthair...
I didn't mean that kind of gift! Silly British Shorthair... | Source

She Brings You Gifts

Your cat may also show her appreciation for all you do for her by bringing you gifts. While you may not appreciate a dead mouse or bird in your bed at seven in the morning, your cat is only thinking of you when she selects such presents. Cats are natural hunters, and she only wants to share with you, her best friend, the spoils of her latest hunting trip.

Your cat has probably noticed that you don’t seem to bring home your own kills too often, so she is only trying to make sure you are well fed when she shares hers. You open a can to give her food every day. She only wants to return the favor.

Cats love warm, fuzzy blankets
Cats love warm, fuzzy blankets | Source

She Makes Biscuits on You

When cats are especially content, they exhibit a behavior called kneading, or “making biscuits.” This is when cats push their paws in and out on a soft surface, pulling lightly with their claws, in an alternating left/right pattern. This is likely a left-over behavior from kittenhood, when kittens use this motion to stimulate milk flow from their mother cat. Cats likely do this in the presence of their favorite humans because they see their humans as their parents.

Another theory of why cats “make biscuits” is that this is simply another way for cats to leave their scent on their favorite things and people to claim them as their own. Either way, if your cat kneads on you, it means they really need you!

Is there anything more adorable than a purring kitten?
Is there anything more adorable than a purring kitten? | Source

You Get Her Purr Motor Running

Cats purr when they are happy and feel safe and content. If your cat purrs every time you pet or play with her, it means she feels very comfortable around you and is happy you are there. The louder your cat purrs in your presence, the happier she is to be around you.

If your cat is purring loudly, she feels relaxed, safe, and happy. If your cat really loves you, you may notice her purrs becoming more intense when you pet her.

Cats groom to show affection.
Cats groom to show affection. | Source

She Grooms You

If your cat licks your hair or ears, she considers you part of her family. Cats that are close to one another often groom each other. This builds friendship and trust amongst a group of cats, as well as establishes a group scent amongst the members of the group.

Cats don’t groom members of other species, including humans, often, so if your cat tries to groom you, you know she considers you part of her close family.

Cats only nap with those they feel safe around.
Cats only nap with those they feel safe around. | Source

She Naps with You

Cats are very particular about where they sleep. In the wild, cats are extremely vulnerable while asleep, so they don’t choose their napping places lightly. Cats are very careful to conceal themselves from possible threats before they doze off.

If your cat chooses to nap near you, or even on your lap, know that you mean something special to her. If she feels safe enough with you to fall asleep near you, she really trusts you.

Cats use body language to tell you how they feel.
Cats use body language to tell you how they feel. | Source

Her Tail Twitches When She Sees You

You can tell a lot about a cat’s mood by their tail. When cats are particularly happy, they will hold their tail up high with the tip of their tail twitching slightly. Just make sure they aren’t swishing their tail back and forth quickly, which indicates agitation rather than contentment.

If your cat approaches you with her tail held high, twitching the end ever so slightly, she is happy to see you. Cats are happiest when they are near their favorite people.

Cats can be just as affectionate toward their owners as dogs.
Cats can be just as affectionate toward their owners as dogs. | Source

Decoding Your Cat’s Language

Though many people claim that cats aren’t as affectionate as dogs, this just isn’t true. Cats are very affectionate and loving pets. While it can be a bit difficult for humans to read cat’s emotions, if you know what to look for, it is easy to see that your cat loves you just as much as you love her. Though cats are more subtle about revealing their feelings than dogs, they still feel affection for their favorite humans.

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      • JenniferWilber profile imageAUTHOR

        Jennifer Wilber 

        12 days ago from Cleveland, Ohio

        I’m so sorry about your kitten, Janisa.

      • JanisaChatte profile image

        Janisa 

        12 days ago from Earth

        My Argentinian kitten really loved me... I was so sad when she got killed :(

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        Peggy Woods 

        4 weeks ago from Houston, Texas

        Our Peaches definitely loves me given all of the things that she regularly does according to what you have written. She definitely shows her affection and trust.

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