DogsCatsFish & AquariumsReptiles & AmphibiansRodentsRabbitsExotic PetsBirdsFarm Animals as Pets

Why Does My Cat Bite Me?

Updated on September 9, 2016
Bridget F profile image

Bridget is a long-time cat owner, cat-sitter, and cat lover with years of feline research and hands-on experience.

This kitten appears sweet and gentle right now, but watch out at play time!
This kitten appears sweet and gentle right now, but watch out at play time!

Why Does My Cat Bite Me? Types of Cat Bites

The first thing to do when dealing with a cat that bites is to distinguish between aggressive cat biting and gentle bites (sometimes called "love bites.") In order to change or work with a behavior, we need to understand why it is happening.

Aggressive biting is painful, and can lead to bleeding, infection and even scarring. When a cat bites aggressively it is usually because they are feeling fearful, or because they are reacting to their senses picking up on another cat in the area. These types of bites may have to do with play aggression (playing too roughly,) territory aggression, or a response based on early abuse that the cat may have endured. Play aggression is the most common reason for cat bites to humans.

So-called "love bites" are actually a form of cat communication, and typically occur when a cat is feeling overstimulated or when the cat feels a strong bond with you. These bites are typically gentler bites that do not break human skin

Play Aggression: A Common Problem

Play aggression is the most typical reason for aggressive biting, particularly among young kittens and cats. Our cats are a part of our families, but they are still animals and need to play to let out some of their excess energy, as well as to instinctually hone their natural hunting skills. Cats typically play with each other to practice their social skills and to work on their coordination, too. However, many cats are the only cat in the household, so it makes sense that they need and want to play with humans!

The problem occurs when cats play a bit too roughly for our human skin. Cats have a thick coat of fur, and will often bite, scratch and wrestle with each other. This behavior comes naturally to them, and our cats don't realize that we have sensitive skin with no fur for protection.

Cats are natural predators
Cats are natural predators

How To Stop Play Aggression

Now that we know the reasons for play aggression, it's time to think about ways of handling our cat's rough play while still allowing them to have fun and get their exercise.

Set regular play times with your cat. If a cat or kitten is feeling bored and trying to get you to play, they may bite or scratch at us roughly in order to try to get our attention and provoke a reaction, much as it would with another cat. If the cat knows to expect us to play at certain times of the day, they may be less likely to try to go after our hands or feet every time we walk by. This play time will also use up a good amount of the cat's excess energy and give them a chance to hunt some "prey" and practice their skills. Ten minutes of play time twice daily is a common recommendation.

Play with the cat using toys. It's cute and fun to move our hands under a blanket or across the floor and let a tiny kitten attack, but once a cat is older they may associate our hands and feet with playtime and attack as much as possible, causing pain and open wounds! Cats do best when we use toys that are separated from our hands and feet, such as fishing pole type toys, for instance, which they can chase, attack and bite. This way, our cat will associate the toys with play time and not our bodies.

Carry a toy and use it as a distraction if the cat attacks feet and legs when we walk by. As the cat is getting used to the idea that toys are for playing and human bodies are not, we may need to distract them before they pounce and bite. This means that it is a good idea to have a toy on hand (or in a pocket) whenever possible so it can be tossed to the floor as a distraction from our ankles and toes if we sense an oncoming cat attack!

If the cat does attack during play time or at any other time: walk away, look away, and do not engage. Cats try to attack and play because they are trying to get us to play back. They do not respond well to punishment, yelling or any time of negative stimulus. Cats do understand when we ignore them and stop providing attention for bad behavior, though. If our cat is suddenly biting us or becoming aggressive toward us during play time, the best course of action is to walk way into another room and ignore the cat if it follows. Do not make eye contact, do not touch the cat and do not offer treats or pick the cat up.

Keep the environment interesting. Try giving the cat new toys every so often, or set up perches and hiding spaces for the cat so it can spend time playing alone as well. If provided with a number of toys as well as a fun environment, our cats are able to entertain themselves (and use up a good amount of their energy) for quite some time!

"Love Bites"

"Love bites" are another type of cat or kitten bite. These typically occur when the cat is overstimulated or when the cat is feeling strongly bonded to us. Love bites are not typically painful (though they can be at times and depending on the cat). These types of bites will often happen when a cat does not want to be pet anymore, when he or she would like to be put back down on the ground, or when the cat is just beginning to feel playful.

The best way to watch out for a love bite is to pay attention to a cat's tail! If our cat's tail is swishing and low toward the ground, it's typically time to give him or her some space! Also watch out for the cats ears moving back toward the back of their head, which may mean that the cat is about to get aggressive or ready to bite. Cats do give us signals when they are unhappy with us or have had enough, and it is up to us to pay attention to them. Some cats do not have much of a tolerance for petting, for instance, and we must respect that.

Treating Cat Bites and Wounds

Treating and sterilizing a cat bite is very important!

  • It's best to first clean the area with soap and water
  • Run the wound under running water if possible for a few minutes and then wash with soap
  • Dry and apply an antibiotic ointment to the area
  • Cover with a sterile bandage
  • If you are unable to stop bleeding, or if you notice any signs or symptoms of infection, see a doctor immediately!

Cats are intelligent, loving, wonderful pets. Just don't forget that they are also animals and it is up to us as humans to work with them in order to live harmoniously! Cat bites are usually a form of communication, letting us know what a cat needs more or less of.



    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • FlourishAnyway profile image

      FlourishAnyway 10 months ago from USA

      One of my cats was a "nipper" and "swatted" but had a sweet disposition. We had only had him about two years and he was getting crankier and crankier. I got his teeth cleaned because his breath smelled bad and I though he might have a bad tooth. I found he had seven !!! yucky teeth that needed to be immediately removed. He hasn't bitten me since. He had to be in such agony. No wonder the guy was grading on me!

    • Bridget F profile image

      Bridget F 10 months ago from USA

      Oh wow! I have a cat who is the same way, maybe he needs another check up!

    • profile image

      Rose 9 months ago

      I love our cat very much. I try to play with him as much as possible,but he still likes to grab my legs and bite. He is 2 yrs old We have had 4 catsin our 54 yrs of marriage but this is our fifth and his disposition is so different He doesn't like to be held or made of. We got him at a shelter.Helets you know when its time for his food by meowing he is afraid of people. Doesn't like loud noises, Hope he gets better with age

    • profile image

      BethMurray 6 months ago

      The cat is my son's feline. I got is for his daughter while in the process of buying house on short sale. I am not fond of the cat but have a bond with the cat who bites me every chance she get. She comes in my space just to bite me. It was a feral kitten and the mother is often lurking around the house. I pray the biting stop or he will have to find another home before their home is closed on

    Click to Rate This Article