6 Disadvantages of Having a Dog in the House for Trying-To-Conceive (TTC) Couples
When you’re contemplating whether you’re built to be a pet parent, it is typical and even essential for you to do your research first and absolutely understand what you’re getting into, especially if you and your partner are also trying-to-conceive and start your own little family.
Previously, I shared my thoughts and enumerated the advantages of adopting a dog particularly for TTC couples in my article, 5 Reasons to Adopt a Dog: For Trying-To-Conceive (TTC) Couples. This time, let me go through the disadvantages of having a dog.
And yes, I’m organizing my thoughts while an adorable little fur ball plays with my toes, as if to discourage me from sharing these drawbacks. I've used great human strength to avoid the pleasant distraction, and here’s what I’ve come up with.
1. The shedding fur will haunt you even in your sleep
That may be an exaggeration but then again, that could be your reality. If you are eyeing a furry breed, its adorable fluffy self comes with the problematic shedding of fur. As a pet parent, the furs in your shirt, on the couch, all over your living room, the fur balls under the bed and even the fur in your bed, is typical. Dogs love to freely lounge in unwelcome places and the couch or the bed will never be completely off limits. Maybe that crazy dog movie showing wild pooch partying on the bed celebrating world domination behind your back is actually based on true-to-life story. You are then usually left to deal with the aftermath. To help address the issue, regular grooming of the dog is adequate. A good fur cleaning rake or gadget, that can easily be purchased from your friendly neighborhood pet store or online, would also do the trick.
2. There will be loads of poop and pee
Having a dog in the house is similar to having a toddler in the house. And just like taking care of a toddler, a dog especially a pup means loads of poop and pee. This is unavoidable particularly if you will allow the dog to sleep inside the house or until the dog becomes trained. In the first few weeks, the pungent aroma as you approach your living room will no longer be a surprise. The small smelly chunks scattered all over your living room floor will also be a normal spectacle.
According to doodycalls.com, doggie poop is toxic and cannot be used even as a fertilizer. It can also carry lots of bacteria and diseases. If you’re trying to conceive, keeping yourself and your partner healthy is a must hence regularly cleaning and disinfecting your house is critical. Fortunately, this problem is not hopeless and could be solved through proper waste management and disposal- with a good dog waste bag- and behavioral training. Make sure to prepare treats for the trainee!
Dogs are wise. They crawl away into a quiet corner and lick their wounds and do not rejoin the world until they are whole once more.— Agatha Christie (author, Death on the Nile)
3. Expect tons of doggie drool
Some would find this disgusting but it's what most pet owners are accustomed to. Dogs are generally sweet creatures. Licking is just one of your dog’s various ways of showing love. But can you even imagine where that doggy mouth has been before slobbering you with kisses? Oh my…
There is this myth that a dog’s mouth is cleaner than human mouth. That’s what it is, a myth. Do you really believe that anything that could lick its own body and genitals have clean mouths? Then, is this something you and your trying-to-conceive partner should worry about? Why do pet owners still turn out perfectly fine?
According to Dr. William Craig, a former President of the Texas Academy of Veterinary Practice, dogs lick germs off themselves and anything they get their mouths into. Apparently, a dog's mouth is full of bacteria and infection that can jump back and forth from dog to human and vice versa. However, note that most human upper respiratory illnesses are caused by viruses and not bacteria, and most viruses are species-specific. So all those wet loving from your dog could actually improve your immune system and help you fight off common diseases. Isn't that awesome?! With that worry out of the way, you can just get your pet a good oral care kit to make them more kissable and you're good to go.
Despite the disadvantages, would you consider adopting a dog?
4. Beware of your dog dander
According to American Lung Association, “pet dander is composed of tiny, even microscopic, flecks of skin shed by cats, dogs, rodents, birds and other animals with fur or feathers.” These particles, mainly because they are tiny and light weight, could spread and stick anywhere, become airborne for a long time and get inhaled by you or another person. These could trigger or cause various allergic reactions similar to upper and lower respiratory tract infection symptoms like sneezing, runny nose, coughing and wheezing. It could also cause skin reactions like rashes and itching. As a pet owner, regularly cleaning the house might lessen these allergens but if you or a family member are suffering from a medical condition that could be triggered by the dog’s dander, the idea of bringing home a dog is something you should reconsider. This could also cause unnecessary stress which could negatively impact your reproductive health.
5. Having a pet comes with expenses
Assuming responsibility of a dog will entail you to regularly spend cash on dog food, dog shampoo, vaccines, scheduled vet check-up and doggie treats. These are just a dog’s basic needs that a responsible owner should be aware of. There will also be unscheduled vet visits and medicines in cases when your dog is not in perfect health. Other pet parents even choose to spend on doggy bed, outfits and accessories. If you’re trying-to-conceive, especially if you’re already spending resources on medical procedures to assist you with conceiving, reassessing if you could handle the additional cost should be done before deciding if a dog is for you. If you can still handle the extra expense and decide on sharing your life with a fur baby, go ahead and expect your love to be reciprocated. Believe me, every single cent will be worth it.
5. A dog could make you lose focus of your trying-to-conceive activities
Trying-to-conceive couples these days could do a lot to encourage conception. These includes healthy diet, proper exercise, monitoring ovulation, timing the baby-making, taking fertility supplements… the list goes on. None of these could guarantee pregnancy but being focused would absolutely help. It would be a slightly different scenario if you also have to joggle pet parent responsibilities together with your other daily tasks. Time needs to be spent taking care of the dog; it needs to be fed, it has to be walked daily and bathe maybe few times a week. Managing your baby-making activities together with your other life concerns whilst taking care of the pet could be overwhelming and stressful.
Furthermore, some couples, exhausted from the stress and difficulty of conceiving, along the way could find themselves just settling with loving the dog and would just consciously decide to stop trying. Thus, a dog in the house could at times turn out to be a distraction. Nonetheless, if you really want something so bad, a likely distraction could turn into a motivation and inspiration. Having a dog could even help by lowering your stress hormones. It's just a matter of priorities and determination to keep your eye on the prize.
A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself.— Josh Billings (a.k.a. Henry Wheeler Shaw; humorist and lecturer)
These are just some of the disadvantages of having a dog, especially for those trying to conceive. Feel free to share in the comments below if you have more in mind.