The Risks of Raising Two Female Dogs
Male-Female Combinations Often Work Better
Why Two Female Dogs May Not Be the Best Combination
You just visited a local breeder and fell in love with two puppies. They are two adorable female pups that seem to love to play together. You inquired about adopting one, but your heart is split in half between the two. You finally decide that you want both, and the breeder seems quite content to double their profits.
If you find yourself considering this sort of same-sex adoption scenario, think again. As cute and playful same-sex sibling puppies are, chances are that once they mature, they will engage in some serious discussions that could turn bloody.
Thinking that both ladies may work it out together is not a good choice. Very likely, fights may escalate, and one dog may severely injure or kill the other. This seems to happen most often when the two dogs are close in age or when one dog is older and a newer dog is introduced to the pack.
When two females are close in age, there is often a lot of competition. They will fight over several competing elements. Such fights seem to occur the most in the presence of the owner. They may fight over who walks first up a ramp of stairs or through the door, or they may fight over sleeping areas, foods, treats, and toys. Sometimes a cause may not be completely visible in the owner's eyes, but one dog may have felt challenged by the other and felt the need to send her back down the ladder.
Adopting a younger female dog while owning an older female is also high risk. The newer dog may perceive the older dog as weak may try to take over. Unfortunately, such fights may have a sad ending.
However, not all female dogs tend to have such fights. There are cases where owners are able to allow them to peacefully coexist with no problems. A big role is played by the owner, applying a "no fight" policy and intervening if something looks like more than a minor squabble. Through desensitization and counterconditioning, a lot of progress can be achieved.
However, should a fight still disrupt, owners must be very careful in their attempts in separating the two fighting dogs. The chances of 'redirected aggression" are high. In such cases, the fighting dogs will get confused by the fight and over aroused up to a point where they may attack the owner attempting to bring peace back.
It is best therefore, to separate the two by startling them. This is accomplished by tossing a blanket over them, watering them with a hose, making a sudden loud noise or grabbing one dog by the rear legs and pulling away as if the dog was a wheelbarrow. You'll need to be very careful.
While many female dogs do get along peacefully, adopting two puppies of the same sex can sometimes be like playing the Russian roulette, their future may be a question mark. As cute as they may be, please try to consider that in the future one of them may have to be re-homed simply because they do not get along. If you are purchasing from a responsible breeder, he or she will not allow you to adopt such combination. If you really must adopt two, a female and a male is a much savvier combination, however ideally consider they should have a few years in between to avoid excessive bonding between each other than with the owner. However, no black and white statements can be made. A lot depends on your level of commitment.
Thinking that dogs "will get over it" and sort things out on their own, is pretty naïve when it comes to raising two female dogs. This may specifically apply the most to certain dogs of certain breeds as some are predisposed to same-sex aggression. Please do your homework seriously and do not take decisions lightly. It may cause you to give up a dog or worse it may cost another dog's life.
This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. It is not meant to substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, or formal and individualized advice from a veterinary medical professional. Animals exhibiting signs and symptoms of distress should be seen by a veterinarian immediately.
Questions & Answers
We have two female dogs, one is a year old and one is a little over three. They used to get along great until they both have gone into heat now they fight a lot! Will getting them spayed stop this?
Spaying them may stop if their fighting is exclusively hormonally-induced, but of course, there are no guarantees. It is actually not that unusual for two female dogs in heat to fight. With raging hormones, there is also likely some level of competition going on. It is best to keep females in heat separate until they come out of heat if spaying is not an option due to the dogs being used for breeding.Helpful 18
Thank you for this article. I have been dealing with this issue for 6-9 months and after the last fight, I am surrendering. So, I know my next step is getting a home for my female dog. What do you suggest? Meaning, where do "Good People" look for dogs? Craigslist? Equinenow? I live on a ranch in the country. Care and love my animals. If she must go, I want her to go to a excellent caring and loving family.
So sorry to hear things didn't work out, but you are doing the kindest thing as dogs who tend to fight tend to live in a stressful situation. To answer your question, you can do some screening by interviewing people and asking for an adoption fee so to discourage her from going to the wrong people. You can contact rescue groups, especially those catering to your dog's specific breed if your dog is purebred. You can ask help from family and friends. Sometimes, you can get lucky and find some acquaintances willing to adopt. Local feed stores sometimes allow you to post ads on their bulletin boards. Last but not least, make sure you let them know your dog hasn't been getting along with your dog so that your dog is placed in a new home where she can relax as being the only dog.Helpful 16
I have a senior female boxer-pit mix and a younger bully female that is just over a year old. Recently, they have started fighting so bad that there is usually bloodshed, and both are limping. Does it matter who started it? It happens so fast, almost always when my back it turned. I feel terrible because I can't afford a trainer in my area.
You may have to keep the two separated, especially when you cannot directly supervise them. There are many cases of youngsters not getting along with older dogs. They may be fighting over resources such as toys, sleeping areas or even over you. It may be difficult at times finding out who started it if these fights happen when you turn your back. It helps to keep toys or other objects that may trigger conflicts out of the way.Helpful 15