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Why Is My Dog Protective of the Couch?

Adrienne is a certified dog trainer and former veterinarian assistant who partners with some of the best veterinarians worldwide.

Why is your dog so protective of the couch?

Why is your dog so protective of the couch?

Why Is My Dog Resource Guarding the Couch?

So your dog is protective of the couch. The fact is unmistakable because Rover turns into a snarling, scary beast anytime someone comes close to his "throne." Yet, in any other circumstance, your dog is the sweetest animal on earth, which makes you wonder whether he's bipolar. So what causes a dog to resource guard something as mundane as a couch, chair, or bed? Let's take a look at some "pawsibilities."

A Survival Instinct

In the canine world, guarding resources is quite a natural behavior, whether it's guarding a mate, food, bones, or resting areas. The guarding behavior is linked to survival as dogs have a natural need to eat, sleep, and reproduce. Domestication has added guarding the owner's attention to the list. Sharing is not on the top list of Rover's social etiquette.

Humans, on the other hand, don't even excel in sharing, if we think about it. While you may be willing to share a piece of cake with a friend, it's unlikely that you will want to share your bank account with her or with anybody else for that matter. Safes, vaults, fences, bolted doors, and bank accounts are all items that allow us to "resource guard' our belongings, preventing others from having access to them.

Now, dogs aren't all alike; it's true that some are more willing to share a sleeping spot, while others will do what it takes to defend it. The dog's genes and upbringing (or combination of both) are ultimately what shape the dog's personality.

A Comfortable Place

Why did Rover choose your couch? Most likely for the simple fact that it's comfortable. It likely felt very good the first time he slept there. The armrest is a perfect spot to place his head; the pillows are soft, and once curled up there, he feels nice and warm. It's quite obvious that a couch is much comfier than a floor!

As a general rule of thumb, behaviors that are rewarded tend to repeat. So if Rover jumped on the couch and it felt good, you'll probably see him up there more and more. So what happens when Rover likes something very much? Chances are, if he's predisposed to resource guard high-value items, he'll want to defend it.

A Safe Haven

Old dominance theory wants us to believe that dogs guard the couch because it allows them to feel superior, and from the height of their mighty couch, they could "admire their domain." Yet, the more and more I observe dogs guarding the couch, the more I think they are just trying to defend their space and their right to rest undisturbed.

A blanket on the floor doesn't cut it, and rude dogs will continue to pester a dog lying down on the floor, so the couch offers "higher" chances of being left undisturbed. It's as if once on the couch, the dog displays a "do not disturb" sign by emitting a growl or showing his pearly whites to any dog who tries to approach. There's a reason why people who own cats and dogs are recommended to install cat trees and high areas. These high areas allow kitty a safe haven out of Rover's reach, and perhaps the same seems to go on with dogs.

Bad Reception

Dogs are constantly communicating with other dogs and us through their body language. Many problems are aggravated when their language is ignored. For instance, before the dog goes on to guard the couch with a visible snarl or apparent growl, most likely, he tried communicating his warning to back off, but it's unfortunate that his request went ignored.

The dog may have stiffened his body, licked his lips, or turned his head the other way with a whale eye to tell the person or other dog that he wanted to be left alone. If the person or other dog continues to come close, ignoring his request (either because of being rude, naïve in reading body language, or just not knowing any better), when push comes to shove, the dog will escalate his behavior, and that's when we get the "wake-up call" that the dog is resource guarding the couch.

So now that we have a few possible explanations for why a dog may feel compelled to guard a couch, we will look at ways to curb this behavior.

Dog protecting the couch.

Dog protecting the couch.

How to Deal With a Dog Guarding the Couch

Some professionals treat guarding the couch as guarding other items, but I think it takes a slightly different approach. I also think it must be approached differently if the dog is guarding the couch against people or other dogs. The following are some tips to deal with dogs guarding the couch.

For Dogs Guarding the Couch Against People

In this case, the dog is manifesting signs of resource guarding towards people. The dog may be climbing on a couch or bed and may snarl, growl or even bite anybody who tries to approach the couch, climb on the couch or move him off the couch. Here are a few tips:

  • Forfeit access to the couch. In other words, manage the dog's environment for safety (you don't want to get bitten!) and to prevent the dog from rehearsing the guarding behavior.
  • Make the couch area inaccessible. Place a pile of books, upside-down chairs, or boxes on it.
  • For the time being, hire a dog behavior professional to help you out. He/she will guide you through some behavior modification techniques to reduce this guarding behavior. A great method is counterconditioning, which focuses on changing the dog's emotional response to having you near the couch.
  • Train the dog to target your hand when you need him to get off the couch. Click and treat him for obliging.
  • At the same time, make another sleeping area (made just for the dog) very appealing. Get the comfiest dog bed you can find and feed your dog many tasty treats when he goes there. By doing this, not only are you making the new sleeping area appealing because it's now an area where great things happen, but you are also teaching the dog that great things happen when you approach his new sleeping area.
  • Let sleeping dogs lie. In some cases, Rover's behavior may be somewhat justified. Children may have pestered him in the past when he was tired and wanted to sleep, or the owner may have pet him repeatedly on the couch when all he was doing was sending distance-increasing signals because he wanted to do is sleep. Dogs can get grumpy too when they are tired, and if they are repeatedly pestered, a time may finally come when they must resort to plan B to make the message clear that they wish to sleep. Contrary to what we may think, dogs aren't always willing to be given attention 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Some may tolerate it; some may not.
  • Remove as many stressors as you can from your dog's life. Dog trainer Pat Miller claims, "Aggression is caused by cumulative stress that pushes a dog over his aggression threshold. We’re all grumpier when we’re stressed."
  • Never use force or intimidation as these outdated methods make problems worse.

For Dogs Guarding the Couch Against Other Dogs

In this case, the dog is fine sharing the couch with people but hates having other dogs near. This is not unusual behavior in multi-dog households. Many dogs are able to live together peacefully by finding an arrangement. The resource guarder may signal a request to be left in peace, and the other dog defers and grants it—end of the story. Problems start when the other dog is slow to defer or doesn't defer at all, and the resource guarder escalates his behavior to get the message across. Following are some tips for dogs guarding the couch against other dogs

  • If the couch is the main source of problems, make the couch area inaccessible. Place a pile of books, upside-down chairs, or boxes on it.
  • If the couch is the only place that triggers guarding, it may be a good idea to no longer allow any dogs on the couch for the time being. Yet, there are chances that the resource guarder will even feel compelled to guard a dog bed.
  • Learn to recognize signs of tension. While when guarding food, dogs tend to hunker down towards the object, in the case of guarding a couch, the dog will likely stiffen, lower his head and growl, and eventually bite if these signs go unnoticed.
  • Avoid punishing the dog's growl or other warning signs, as the dog may then decide to bite without warning. This applies to resource guarding against both humans or dogs.
  • While management can help prevent problems, it's also important to work out how to teach the dogs to behave appropriately around resources. Employ a behavior professional to help you.
  • Use counterconditioning. In this method, you'll be working along with a professional on changing the dog's emotional response to having another dog approach the couch.
  • Ask a professional about teaching the victim dog to defer to the resource guarder on cue as a second line of defense to avoid a fight.
  • Have your dogs wear tabs so they can be removed before a situation escalates without grabbing their collars or putting your hands on the dogs, which can be risky.

This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. It is not meant to substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, or formal and individualized advice from a veterinary medical professional. Animals exhibiting signs and symptoms of distress should be seen by a veterinarian immediately.


Adrienne Farricelli (author) on February 24, 2020:

Hi Sam, in many cases management may be the best option. With no more access to the couch, there should be less to fight over.

Sam Pad on February 22, 2020:

My Frenchie girl Molly will share the sofa with her male Frenchie friends when they come over on play dates, but has turned into a savage guarding beast with her little foster sister Dottie. Poor little Dottie can't even come near the sofa now. We have tried putting Molly off the sofa on to the floor, which helps a bit, better than telling her off, but foster sister does not respond to signals so she is going to have to be moved sadly.

Adrienne Farricelli (author) on December 27, 2013:

Spooky must have some sort of reinforcement from jumping on Joey. Maybe he wants Joey to move, so to entice him to play, dogs love movement. But yes, sounds pushy, Joey sounds though like he can put up with it, but who knows a day may come where he'll push his buttons too much and he'll tell spooky he had enough!

Adrienne Farricelli (author) on December 27, 2013:

I have seen sweet doggies as such that are good but wait until you get close to the couch!

Adrienne Farricelli (author) on December 27, 2013:

Gregotte, thank you! Happy to hear you don't adhere to old dominance theory or punishment-based methods. You sound like an awesome trainer, best wishes for you career!

Linda Rogers from Minnesota on December 26, 2013:

Great article on guarding behaviors. My black labs don't do this but have other behaviors. My younger dog 'Spooky' rudely jumps on 'Joey' and sits there till he moves. It's very rude. One of us always tells Joey not to let his little sister push him around like that. LOL

ShyeAnne from Qualicum Bay, British Columbia, Canada on December 26, 2013:

Sweet looking little doggy. Doesn't look capable of growling ! Interesting read.

Anne-Marie from Montreal on December 26, 2013:

I am a dog trainer with little experience, and I've always had a little bit of difficulty to understand resources guarding correctly. This is one of the best article I have read about it! You explained very well! The analogy with the "bank account" was a good one. I would certainly guard my bank account :P

I am always happy to read articles that doesn't encourage punishments and the dominance theory. :)

Adrienne Farricelli (author) on December 26, 2013:

Lol, my girl does the same! Only thing she does it for the toy. She'll rush at the door and bark, then Kaiser falls for it and then she'll steal the toy. Another trick she does is she'll start howling so he howls too, and in order to howl she knows he'll drop the toy. And then she'll also come to us to be pet so he'll want to join in, and when he does, off she goes to get his toy. It's funny how your home can be full of toys, and the only one the other dogs wants is the one the other one has.

wetnosedogs from Alabama on December 26, 2013:

Couch potato Roscoe is good with the couch. Jenny has a trick to get him off. She will bark like crazy and run to the door, run back for Roscoe and I fall for it too. There is something outside she has just got to see what it is. Finally Roscoe is off the couch, Jenny is running back and forth, barking til we get to the door. Roscoe goes out. Jenny stands in the doorway and after a few minutes, that is it. There was nothing to get any dog outside, except to get the big boy off the couch. LOL. I think it's a game Jenny invented cause a lot of times she doesn't even want the couch.