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8 Top Reasons Not to Get a Pet

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Before anyone seriously considers pet ownership, they first need to carefully examine the many reasons why they should not get a pet. While pets may have cute and adorable eyes which are near impossible to resist, the truth of the matter is that pet ownership does not suit everyone. Animal shelters are full of poor, discarded creatures who people acquired without properly considering all of the consequences. While pet ownership can be a positive and life changing event, it can also be an utter disaster. Read along to discover the top eight reasons you should not get a pet.

Eight Reasons Not to Get a Pet

  • High maintenance
  • High expenses
  • Allergies
  • Noise pollution
  • Damage to house and property
  • Lack of freedom
  • Lack of sleep
  • Short lifespan
Owning a pet is very work intensive and high maintenance.

Owning a pet is very work intensive and high maintenance.

1. High Maintenance

Anyone who believes that owning a pet is all about playing with a cute and cuddly little creature is being sorely misled. Pets are entirely dependent upon their owners and can be incredibly high maintenance. It really does not matter whether you own a dog or a fish, they all demand time-consuming work on the part of the owner. Most pets need to be walked or exercised on a regular basis and they all need to be fed, loved and have their habitat cleaned. From cleaning excrement, scrubbing cages, feeding and maintaining a proper grooming schedule, all pets are undeniably high maintenance beings.

Pets can be very costly to the pocketbook.

Pets can be very costly to the pocketbook.

2. High Expenses

The original cost of purchasing a pet is really only the beginning. No matter what type of animal you own, they all have an abundance of inherent costs associated with them. This can include veterinary bills, food, habitats such as cages or tanks, supplies, grooming costs, obedience training and even boarding when the owner has to go away. Make no mistake, owning a pet will come with many financial obligations and sacrifices.

Many owners are allergic to their pets.

Many owners are allergic to their pets.

3. Allergies

There have been far too many stories about people who have purchased or adopted a pet only to find out later that they are allergic to their new family member. This can be very distressing for the individual, and potentially catastrophic for the animal. Many people will be allergic to their new pet's dander, saliva and even urine. In truth, a lot of folks will not even realize that they have a pet allergy until they become owners. Also, they may have family members or friends who are allergic to their pet and all of a sudden will no longer be able to visit. Far too often this will lead to their pet being returned to its place of origin. Undoubtedly, allergies are one of the top reasons not to get a pet!

Pets can be very noisy, which is another good reason not to own a pet.

Pets can be very noisy, which is another good reason not to own a pet.

4. Noise Pollution

A lot of individuals do not carefully consider their own particular style of living before they jump into pet ownership. If someone prefers a quiet and serene environment, then owning a pet is not a very wise decision. All types of animals are naturally quite noisy. From barking dogs, screeching birds and cats who meow incessantly, the quiet and serene fortress of solitude will quickly turn into a busy and noisy animal amusement park. If this was not considered before the pet was actually purchased or adopted, problems will surely follow.

Owning a pet can lead to them destroying the house.

Owning a pet can lead to them destroying the house.

5. Damage to House and Property

Whether properly trained or not, pets will have a very negative impact on the actual condition of your house. This can look very different depending upon what type of pet you have. For instance, dogs can be notorious for chewing everything in sight. This can include doors, table legs, recliners and carpets. The list is endless really. Whether it is from playfulness, aggression, anxiety or loneliness, the result is the same. Other pets may be caged all day but they will provide your house with a unique new scent, which is not appealing to anyone. Furthermore, pet urine is a very difficult thing to remove from carpets and can be very destructive to property. Damage to this prized possession of the house is a key reason not to get a pet. All of this doesn't even cover the topic of if your home is even suitable for a pet. Here is an article that can help you determine if your home is pet friendly.

Pet ownership and freedom are not compatible.

Pet ownership and freedom are not compatible.

6. Lack of Freedom

For someone who enjoys having a lot of freedom, pet ownership is clearly not a good idea. Pets require a high degree of care and attention. The days of going out after work for some beers, or flying away for the weekend on the spur of the moment are all but gone when you become a pet owner. Having an animal comes with a lot of responsibility and a willingness to put their needs above your own. In many ways it is not unlike having a child. Decisions will always need to be made with the best interests of the pet coming first. For instance, if you want to travel, it should be for a very limited time so as not to produce undue stress and anxiety in your pet. Also, a pet sitter will need to be arranged far in advance. There can be little doubt that freedom and pets are not a good match.

Lack of sleep is a very good reason not to get a pet.

Lack of sleep is a very good reason not to get a pet.

7. Lack of Sleep

There are not many pets who do not have a dramatic impact on their owner's sleeping schedules. Perhaps the only pets which will not have a significant effect upon the amount of quality sleep their owner is able to get are fish. Most other pets essentially live by their own schedules. Many are nocturnal in nature and will do a lot of their activity during the night when everyone else is attempting to sleep. Others, such as dogs, will awaken their owners numerous times in order to go outside for a bathroom break, or deciding to bark incessantly at the sound of a car door slamming down the street. When it comes to taking a nap to catch up on some much needed sleep...don't even bother. In truth, lack of sleep is a very good reason not to get a pet.

Short pet lifespan is a very good reason not to get a pet.

Short pet lifespan is a very good reason not to get a pet.

8. Short Lifespan

While it can certainly be a point for debate, perhaps the most critical reason not to get a pet is that they do not live very long. When pets become part of the family, they are loved just like any other family member. To lose them so quickly, after becoming so attached to them, can be very devastating for both young and old family members. Others may use such cliches such as, "it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." However, to lose a pet is a heart-wrenching experience that many individuals would be more than happy to just avoid altogether. If your family does lose a pet, here is an article that can help you talk to children about it.

Reasons Not to Get a Dog

Here are some additional reasons why a dog may not be the best pet for you.

  • You don't have a stable schedule. Dogs behave best when they are on a consistent schedule. They like to be walked and fed around the same time every day. This is how trust is built between a dog and its owner. Having a dog as pet may not be a good idea if your schedule is constantly changing.
  • You are unsure about the rules of your apartment. If you rent an apartment or condo, you should not get any pet if you are unsure about the rules regarding pet ownership. It is a common occurrence for a renter to bring home a dog only to be heartbroken when their landlord informs them that their pet is prohibited. You don't want to be in a situation where you have to scramble to find a home for your pet.
  • You have a baby or are expecting one. This isn't a complete deal breaker, but it is a potential problem. Having a newborn and a new pet will likely be overwhelming. You'll have to adjust to having two new family members, as well as teach your dog how to interact with the baby. It may be better to wait until things have settled with the baby before you think about getting a dog.
  • Your partner isn't onboard. If you live with a significant other, you should only consider a dog if they like the idea as well. A relationship can become strained if pets are involved and someone doesn't like having them around or taking care of them. You should not force the idea of a pet if they don't want to have one around.
  • You aren't knowledgeable on the breed. Different dog breeds have different needs. Some will need more exercise than others. Some breeds have common health problems that will need special attention. For example, German shepherds often have hereditary hip dysplasia, which can lead to paralysis. Dalmatians often develop urolithiasis, which leads to kidney stones and requires them to have special diets. You should avoid getting a dog if you are not educated about that specific breed.

Good Beginner Pets

Despite all the hurdles and demands of pet ownership, there are many benefits to owning a pet. If you want to see how you cope with one, or want to get a starter pet for your child, here are some pets that you should consider before going for something like a dog.

  • Parakeet: These birds are very popular pets due to being relatively low maintenance and doing very well in captivity. They can live in small birdcages in your home and have fairly simple diets of seeds, fruits and vegetables.
  • Mice: These animals can enjoy interaction and are quite intelligent. They are relatively easy to care for as long as they have a clean cage, food and some toys. They can even be easily trained. They can eat fruits and vegetables as well as feed from the pet store.
  • Guppies: These fish are very popular for home aquariums. They can live in a variety of water types and can do well in a small-sized tank. They can get along in group aquariums and are easy to feed with fish food or bloodworms.
  • Goldfish: This popular pet is inexpensive and can be kept in a medium-sized tank. Their food can be picked up in any pet store. They can be a little messy, so their tank will need a filter to keep the water clean.

Conclusion

Pet ownership is a unique privilege which should not be entered into lightly. It can be an incredibly satisfying and rewarding experience with numerous benefits. However, it is certainly not for everyone. Before anyone makes a decision to bring a pet into their family, they should carefully weigh all sides of the equation to ensure they are ready for the commitment. Without a doubt there are great advantages...but there are also clear reasons you should simply not get a pet.

Resources:

1. Pet Allergy. Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America. 2016

This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. It is not meant to substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, or formal and individualized advice from a veterinary medical professional. Animals exhibiting signs and symptoms of distress should be seen by a veterinarian immediately.

Comments

Kruze on August 10, 2020:

Helped me with my assignment.

https://pethelpful.com/pet-ownership/8-Top-Reasons... is really helpful...

Chris Thompson on July 29, 2020:

My American Staffordshire is 11 years old has never had a fight loves people to death,has never destroyed anything will only do a poo in the bush never in anybody's yard or footpaths or nature strip's,only problem has excessive seperation anxiety,I'm elderly and without her I'd be lost,

Barbara Miller on July 20, 2020:

Dog spelled backwards says god i love my dog plus we adopted all our dogs my dubry was 19 yrs old when we had to put him to sleep last oct i missed having a dog so we got ladywho is 9 yrs old she was adopted from fuzzy friends in our town her name was lady when we got her the only thing that up sets me some people think older people cant adopt

Patricia on July 18, 2020:

I love aninals!!! Gift of God created all Beautiful animals! Period. Im deaf. Ive 2 dogs helped me alot. Very intelligent.

, play, and calm. I taught them good. Please, adopt animals at shelter. I feel sooooo bad, and tears my eyes. I hste see like that. Sorry to God, but im pretty sure hes upset. I may be wrong. Pets can help fir blind, deaf, military, veterans, old people enjoy, and anything. Love them. I dislike their words says not to get a pet. Shelters and Barc and all are crap and mean to dogs. They must be abuse them while people dont know. Never know. I ve seen drs abuseee them. Pk id hit them like wgat they did this to animals. How do they like that. Must put video to wstch. Id delete "SHELTERS!" AWFUL. DOGS ARENT FAULT. TJEY CANT TALK BUT BIDY LANGUAGE. SURE. THE PEOPLE HITS AND ABUSE TOO MUCH. OK LOOK ANUMALS CANTTTTT HIT PEOPLE BACK. NOT FAIRRR TO THEM. They needs is love, play, calm to people, and everything. God is an amazing.

Karen Blackburn on July 16, 2020:

PEdro on July 13, 2020:

Many pets in shelters or rescues have been abused or neglected by their previous owners. Everyone deserves a second chance, and that goes for animals too. By taking in a pet into your home, you’re giving that animal another go at the life they deserve to have

Olivia on July 13, 2020:

yes! pets are the best company ever! i highly recommend!!

Sophia on July 06, 2020:

Yes!

Miranda Critzyl on July 06, 2020:

My family knew pets are bad for us.

Shiran on July 05, 2020:

Great.

Ruth on June 27, 2020:

Yes I agree

Ruth on June 25, 2020:

I agree with you

Pet owners are evil and blind and confused!!! on May 24, 2020:

All stupid reasons. Do you want to be some beings pet? Keeping pets is imprisoning a being. Those who think there doing the world good are all selfish and blind. Nature takes care of itself and needs no human intervention. How foolish of man to think the flowers will not be seeded nor the trees watered Without human intervention. Keeping a pet is fundamentally and ethically wrong. Imagine the domain of fish and birds, now imagine the home we have given them as pets. What if I told you when you could sleep have sex eat and piss. Pet owners are blind selfish evil people who are confused for thinking they are compassionate. Love does not involve force. If you love animals let them free.

ibi on May 09, 2020:

thanks

doglover on May 05, 2020:

i love dogs cats i have an allergy though

J.K. on April 16, 2020:

i hope anyone who says getting a pet is bad, they better have a insanely good otherwise, i hope they starve

tj on March 11, 2020:

love your pet

matthew on February 05, 2020:

like almost everyone this helped with an assignment

bob on February 04, 2020:

this help me with a assignment

yeeter on January 24, 2020:

Thanks very much. This helped with an essay.

princess bubble guppy #69420 on January 21, 2020:

it says you shouldn't own a pet because you have to love it.

me on January 21, 2020:

helpful, but if you can take care of your pet!

Person on January 17, 2020:

This website is very helpful when I was typing an essay.

saucey buy loves his sauce on December 02, 2019:

Yay I got an A+

Hung on November 27, 2019:

I agree :)

lol on November 20, 2019:

bruv

Phoenix on November 18, 2019:

I have many pets but this website is very helpful when I was typing and essay.

kailanisbest on October 29, 2019:

i agree :D

Dylan on October 17, 2019:

Pets are cool but a lot of work to take care of

cats are better on September 26, 2019:

Cat rule

jb5 on September 12, 2019:

I have always had dogs. Wouldn't change that for anything. Yes, there are drawbacks but, the positives far outweigh any negatives.

I can honestly say that the 2 Girls I have now are the reason I am still on this plane. If not for the love & companionship I receive from them I would have given up & ended my life. Each day with my Girls is a precious gift from God.

mia on August 12, 2019:

i liked this it was helpful

Ray on August 03, 2019:

I will never have a dog, cat or any other animal in my house again, especially after my ex brought in we where at 12 dogs in the house for a while and never considered to ask me first. That and other issues I got her and her dogs out. Damages in the thousands.. Doors, walls, window screens and panes, carpets too. There has not been a dog in this house for 2 years and still smells like wet dog. Done with pets and women as well

BB on June 02, 2019:

I agree with Tony yes it cost to have a dog but they also bring a lot of joy and love into your house my daughter has for rescues a standard poodle who will be 12 this fall a shitzu who is three a dachshund who is 9 months and just two weeks ago rescued a Bengal mix 3 months old they have three acres of wooded land an all dogs love to be outdoors especially the Dachshund they have had their issues with health problems with the poodle but they love their pets and the younger two play so much it is a sight to see we all get to laughing we all had dogs growing up and I think everybody should have the opportunity to have a dog at least one time in their life they bring so much joy my daughter and her husband wouldn't have it any other way

? on May 31, 2019:

Dont know about dogs but cats take care of them selves and they can live beteew 17-24 years

dnegjer125@gmail.com on May 30, 2019:

I have 2 dogs and yes it’s a BIG responsibility. No, you can’t go out for long periods of time because they need to be feed and walked. I LOVE my fur babies. They bring a smile to my heart everyday. I can’t tell you that I’ve had times where I wish I didn’t have them because of the responsibility they come with but I will never trade it for anything else. My fur babies love me with an everlasting love that NO human can ever fathom. Sometimes I rather deal with fur babies than human beings. They will never disappoint you or throw you under the bus. That’s just my opinion. Like the saying goes “to each it’s own.”

Nancy P on May 28, 2019:

I have dogs, cats, ferrets and a tortoise and l wouldnt give up any of them. I also have 12 grandchildren so I am so fortunate. I may be mistaken but it seems to me the author was saying these are the things you will experience so if you cant commit to that pets lifetime (and my tortoise will live to be 80) dont get a pet. I experience all of these but none of he reasons are compelling enough to make me surrender my furry babies.

Look.out.4.#1 on May 27, 2019:

Buy yourself a leash and walk BACKWARDS 10 steps then ask yourself. Self why am i doing this?

Oh, because i am too lazy to be a responsible pet owner.

That has hot to be the dumbest thing a person on 2 legs can say.

Hey pants get in the way of underwear and socks too.

Why not run around naked?

Its called companionship?

Not cell phone addiction. Fool.

Less maintenance.

Francis on May 23, 2019:

No matter, I love my dogs , he is expensive YES he came sick, but I will not turn around my back to my lovely dog, life is much better when I fell how much he love me

jean grimes on May 20, 2019:

U probably shouldnt have kids either with those reasons

Don't Ask Me on May 06, 2019:

I'm doing a persuasive writing paper, since I'm still in school, and it's about how every house should own a pet. While I do agree with your points, pets are very loving and allow owners mood, health, and social life improve.

Jayveon Swain on April 23, 2019:

do not get a dog because they can mess up your house

Adam C. Calverley on April 12, 2019:

This is a very good list but it really depends what animal you get. Yes, if you get a small annoying dog they will bark a lot. But with my dog right now she only barks when someones at the door or if she sees someone in the neighbor's yard. But I do agree they are high maintenance and do destroy your house. My dog has broken a whole carpet and many other expensive things.

Karen Williams on March 21, 2019:

Get a pet they will respect and Love you every day more then a kid would. And less money in the long run.

Bob knight on March 15, 2019:

Same reasons to not have children, yet each person wants 15 kids

M on March 11, 2019:

Okay, So the temptation is there to own a dog again. Sheesh, there are so many reasons to not have a pet. I have tried bird after bird to ask myself what am I doing? I started with birds knowing a dog is the goal but was not sure I am ready. I know, I know, the stress level for them too!

Well, I started reading and thinking. A lot!!! Another responsability! Another mouth to feed, one more store to have to shop at which takes up more time, a vet bill waiting to happpen plus regular visits, more time and money spent, Over all more cleaning to do, nights with less or no sleep, more time going for extra walks, and added stress of worry. The noise! When you need quiet. "Fido shush. I am on the phone." I think, I have to be nuts to want to go through that again. I took the birds back. Now I am thinking, what about, Only one a dog? So I keep thinking. The behavior issues, messes in house ( all kinds), destruction, vacation boarding, what if we move or a job change that required more time away, emergencies, allergies for others so visitors and parties are out, food theft off table and garbage hunt, wet dog smell, grooming needs and marking issues, shoes destroyed, my best coat slept on, slobber everywhere, no alone time, needs 24/7 on call care, another baby but this one never grows up and so much more. Now I tell you, who ever is reading this, if you find even only one reason not to have a pet, even just one, get the notion out of your head and heart. It includes and not subjected to only, but...doubt. Doubt= No pet/s! That's final!

Freedom is wonderful!

6ixine on March 04, 2019:

pets are bad

Dang dog on February 10, 2019:

I am the only one in my family that can not stand to live with a dog in my space. It drives me crazy. And being home during a ice storm I realize just how unhappy I am with it in my home. In playing nerf guns with my boys we had to stop and get the nerf bullets out of the dogs mouth so it would not chew them up. It is a huge change in my life that I now have to deal with because I caved in. It just gets on my every nerve.

Thanks for the chance to rant on about this if you are reserved in getting a pet don’t give in for your family you will have to live with that choice for way to long and life is short to give the best years of your life to a dog that makes you miserable.

49 on February 05, 2019:

that is actually true if you sleep with pets they will give you those little worms

ry'lee on December 05, 2018:

dogs and cats are cute i dont know what u people are talking about

Amanda on November 26, 2018:

I have had pets my entire life. I am now 37. In this house is a sulfur crest cockatoo, husky, and snow shoe Siamese. Why? Habit. The dog and cat destroy everything. No matter how much exercise and attention they get. The bird is also destructive and screams for no reason. My allergies are awful. For a year I had no pets. It was great. I had beautiful furniture and could breathe. I had the bird all along. Him I am use to. Then I got a kitty. Bird started yelling more. Pet hair all over. The husband said if I could have a cat he could have a dog. When the cat was about a year old the husky came. Pets are the worse. I really wish it was still just the bird. Pets are the worse.

marvel on November 20, 2018:

pets are cute

Savannah on November 19, 2018:

I love pets. I have a shelti, and she is very beautiful. I agree with these facts, but my dogs doesn't do any of that so I have to argue with those reasons even though I know some dogs.

Jet on November 19, 2018:

Every house should have a pet no matter what.

aamna on October 16, 2018:

the only reason i used to awake at night was because my cat keeps on coming in or out of my room, that isn't i problem now though.

KARTHIKA on August 31, 2018:

if the pet dies we will be crying and cryingbut puppies are cute

keke jones on April 18, 2018:

pets are just cute maybe they will treated them right instead of hurting them

john on February 25, 2018:

life is better with pets :)

mr.piggums on December 05, 2017:

i love this

Tony on November 12, 2017:

Life is so much better if we as humans can connect with animals in any way. It's a special thing that enriches lives. My beautiful boy Wilson is the latest in a line of wonderful Greyhounds that I have rescued. They enrich lives. Pet's enrich lives...they don't take anything away. It makes us as humans less selfish as we have to think more about everything we do and how it affects our responsibilities. The world would be a much better place if everyone owned and cared about the animals that were here long before we turned up.

heatherjasper on August 17, 2017:

I can't tell if this article is serious in its premise or if its a case of reverse psychology. Either way, it brings up several important points that might be overlooked. It's all fun and games until Fido ruins the Persian rug or Polly learns how to squawk curse words at the top of her lungs or Mittens brings in another beheaded rodent.

RTalloni on March 13, 2017:

This title certainly is an eye-catcher in this socioeconomic climate. A new pet is such a temptation, but I give these considerations some serious thought every time I want to jump into it again. When a pet is as truly wonderful as ours have been loss is indeed the most difficult issue.

One issue I have with dog owners is why they think their neighbors want them to allow their pets to use other's driveways, mailbox areas, and flower beds as their bathrooms. Why do they not let them use their own yards for that purpose?

Any old ways, here's an idea for a 9th reason–pollution of environment. A search on "pet ownership and pollution" is quite revealing. It's an obvious problem that is ignored because of how people feel about the matter. They somehow separate their so-called environmental concerns from the impact they make by idolizing animals. It is a curious blindness.

Kyriaki Chatzi on March 05, 2017:

Being a dog owner not many years ago, I can say that having a pet is indeed costly.

The worst part, though, is losing little one. :(

Thanks for sharing, Leonard!

Dr Mark from The Atlantic Rain Forest, Brazil on March 04, 2017:

Great list,Leonard, and all so true. This hub could also be called "Best reasons to get a pet rock" since none of these problems apply. They are low maintenance, cheap, dont make noise, dont cause allergies, never wake you up, and will live longer than you do. I should have got one instead of my dumb dogs.