Not if you want to tame them! There are several opinions on how to gain your birds' trust, but if you only want to handle them for things like wing trimming, then you may use a washcloth. Certainly NOT a leather glove. You can't tell how firmly you are holding the bird and she can easily become injured. There are lots of YouTube videos with advice on "taming multiple birds" at once and almost all of them require the pair be separated. My advice is to watch about 10-20 of these videos to hear the different approaches and make a decision on your approach only after researching. Read as much as you can. Sometimes breeders and aviaries are willing to give advice too.